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Fairystar50
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Username: Fairystar50
| | Posted on Sunday, March 30, 2008 - 11:10 am: | 
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They say if you shelter and rise , feeling the strength of others it can build a sheild, she shall come , write the passage of thy heart and and seam the edges with your beautiful words, one day she shall come when you least are looking ..sweet poet
Debby
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Poison_9901
Starlite Member
Username: Poison_9901
| | Posted on Sunday, March 30, 2008 - 08:47 am: |
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Grailknight777, Rise up from your knee's my friend. What you seek is as elusive as the Holy Grail itself. When we search for something as difficult as love, we tend to give up and become desprate. Thinking we will never find what we are questing for, we fall into a slump, one that to often is potrayed thru our actions and thru our words. Most quest are ended purely by accident, and by that my friend, I mean, you will find what you are seeking when you least expect it. As stated before me Sir Knight, do not make this quest of yours your only mission in life, and love will find you. You are down now, through loss, hurt, and pain, and that my friend is unfourtunate, but remember this, God never place's more upon your plate than you can handle. So rise up my friend, stand proud, for through all your suffering and heartache you have proven to be a worthy Knight of Honor. Shine for the world to see, and you will be seen. You have proven your strength, thru the challenge's that God has placed before you, and you have overcame them one by one. You have not fallen, nor have you laid down your arms. You have proven to be a worthy advisary that will not yield. You my friend, thru your Strength, and Courage will prevail.
I kneel before thee, Sir Grailknight, as one Knight, to another, and pass to you these meager words in hopes that you may find some comfort within them, for I to, was once standing where you are now. You will Prevail my friend.
"One Knight, One Sword, One Heart"
~~~Poison~~~
(Message edited by poison_9901 on March 30, 2008)
(Message edited by poison_9901 on March 30, 2008)
"One Knight, One Sword, One Heart"
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Doc_dyr
Starlite Member
Username: Doc_dyr
| | Posted on Saturday, March 29, 2008 - 10:40 pm: |
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I understand lonliness and found I had more luck when I stopped looking I will pray for you to have someone come into your life
doreen
may life give you it's best, and you live life to your best
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Lindanewman
Starlite Member
Username: Lindanewman
| | Posted on Saturday, March 29, 2008 - 02:56 pm: |
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Jeffrey, I have felt and feel your pain and desperation. And I know it is a cliche to say that you are still young and the right one will come along because that was said to me time and time again. Well, I am no longer young (I am 60) and my greatest fear is that I will die alone, without my soulmate at my side. But, I have not yet given up hope, for I know I have much to offer if only he will look within the pages rather than turning away because I do not have a "pretty cover."
Be very careful with online dating sites because not all is as it appears to be. I know, for I have met some pretty lousy jerks on them--and one was even a minister.
My best advice? Don't try so hard that you appear desperate. Join groups where there might be potential young ladies--book clubs, church groups--do volunteer work if you have the time, go to coffee shops where you can meet people in a relaxed and non-threatening atmosphere. Seek friendship first and perhaps the rest will follow. But most of all, do not define who you are by the fact that you do not have a wife or a steady girl. You are not half of a couple, you are a whole person with likes and dislikes and abilities and yes, perhaps even disabilities (for we all have them).
My prayers are with you that you will find the love you are looking for and that you will not let all of the heartache you have suffered beat you down. Now, if only I were 30 years younger . . . . 
Peace and Love,
^^LINDA^^
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Grailknight777
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Username: Grailknight777
| | Posted on Saturday, March 29, 2008 - 02:05 pm: |
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Shiela: My thanks for your honest prayers. They mean a lot to me! Especially in this day and age.
Ironically, my grandmother is a minister and she prays for me all the time. But, you can never be too looked after by heaven, I always say! ;)
Jacie: Thanks for your advice, and for your very thoughtful reply! I'll keep that advice in mind.
I have just talked a bit about my situation with my grandmother, my brother, and my cousin Carey.
They are all trying to help me find somebody, to the best of their abilities. I'll keep my hopes up that between their efforts and my own that I will indeed find the woman of my dreams. As long as hope remains, light is not diminished even if all may seem darkest. (I suppose, I am indeed a poet at heart!) Lastly... all I can say is bless you and Sheila both for showing that you care. |
Jmduca
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Username: Jmduca
| | Posted on Saturday, March 29, 2008 - 12:58 pm: |
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Although I am happily married your words deeply touched my heart. You seem very sincere and honest. In todays world (as I see it anyways) there are so many PLAYERS.Those who look for fun, excitemnet,good looks, and who has the most $ in their bank account. Sadly this isn't what life and love are all about. To find meaning relationship perhaps you should try a Christian dating service. NOW I AM NOT SAYING that there you will find the love of your life or that it's any better than other online dating services but heck it's worth a try. You seem like such a nice person and I know that there is somebody special out there looking for you too. Read up on some other singles first before posting all about yourself. This way you'll have an idea of that soul mate that you're looking for. Best of luck ~Jacie~
~Jacie Stralko Duca~
JMDUCA@webtv.net
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Missing
Starlite Member
Username: Missing
| | Posted on Saturday, March 29, 2008 - 12:21 pm: |
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I fully understand your feelings and have been
where you are now. My thoughts and prayers
are with you....Sheila |
Grailknight777
Starlite Member
Username: Grailknight777
| | Posted on Saturday, March 29, 2008 - 12:04 pm: |
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Right now, I am at what is probably the most sad and lonely time in my life. Since I was 16, I've been searching for someone to love, and I found only heartbreak. Then, in 2003 I lost two of my dearest friends in the whole world. In 2005, my mother died of diabetes, and in 2006 my father died of a heart attack. Now, I am 33 and aside from my grandmother and brother everyone in my family is gone. If ever I did need to find miss right, it is now... and, if ever a man deserved happiness, it is surely me! I have tried online dating, but no one ever wants to take it further than online. I posted some poems on this site, in the desperate (perhaps childish) hope that the right woman might perchance to read all my feelings, but people are instead thinking that the love poems I wrote were just some poetry and that I couldn't possibly feel this way for real. But I do! I am a good man who keeps being passed by, and it isn't fair. And yes, I know that life isn't fair... but with so much loss and so much heartbreak, why cannot a man find his soulmate and achieve what happiness true love can bring? I watch men who treat their women terrible find love again and again. And, I watch women fall for the same cruel types again and again. Whilst I, a gentle and compassionate soul, am forgotten about or ignored. Unfair is one thing, but life doesn't have to be cruel. I have suffered cruel heartbreak and cruel loss. Not just unfair. All I ask of the powers that be, is that I can find the love that I seek before I am too old. But my biggest fear... is that no one will ever care enough about me, to take a chance on the love I have to offer. That fear, is my biggest torment. Is there anybody out there who might be willing to care for a hopeless romantic such as myself?
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