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Myndi Chinn (Macwriter)
Starlite Member Username: Macwriter
| | Posted on Thursday, October 06, 2005 - 05:57 am: |
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Ok coming from a female here.. though im old enough now that i have my own teenage daughter to deal with ( puberty sucks for us to guys lol) I can say I was then and still am very self concious about the way I look. Most girls at that age are, so if you just walk up to her and tell her she's beautiful, she probably won't believe you. If you're really interested in her, make some careful observations about what she likes/dislikes and ask her to participate in something you both like. Personally, I'd rather have compliments made on my intelligence than on what I look like. We live in a world now where females are struggling to be known as intelligent as males...so compliments of this nature would probably go over well...What the heck David, your on a poetry site, write her something short and sweet, bet that'd go over good too....Thanks for letting me ramble..MAC |
   
Michael .P (Mik3y)
Starlite Member Username: Mik3y
| | Posted on Monday, October 03, 2005 - 06:19 pm: |
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LOL elliot Slipknot lyrics for philosophy hehe Alot of people against themselves and do not even notice Elliot, you could be in the same boat even?! As for getting this girl, acknowledge firstly that you do not wish to possess her and that you can never own her. If you have this imature way of thinking things will never work in a relationship for very long. The other is tell yourself the truth yes you can live without her and yes there is alot of good women out there. Rejection isn't a harsh thing, pride is Forget what people say about been a big man.. The biggest man humiliates himself, the smallest man laughs at the Big man but crys behind closed doors. Despite what you might hear, you cannot die of embarassment! No one in the earths whole History has ever died of embarassment! You are most probably the only person who stops yourself from being the Bigger man so do something about it! Dammn jimbo that idea was Gold lol.. i could imagine the girl giggling but been ever so intrigued! Michael william James
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Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
Starlite Member Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Monday, October 03, 2005 - 10:29 am: |
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ha still a rooster? I'm shackled to this alter sacrificed to their God
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Scott Whitmore (Emhotep)
Starlite Member Username: Emhotep
| | Posted on Sunday, October 02, 2005 - 03:03 am: |
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If that is what you feel, GREAT MORE POWER TO YOU FOR SHOWING A BIT OF YOURSELF IN SUCH A WAY... Although If Ya Think That Ya Can Hand Out Advise On As You Quote " About Girls and Nailing One... ", Come Back And I Will Tell You How To Take A MEGA-HOT 21 YEAR OLD BABE TO YOUR 20TH HIGH SCHOOL REUNION Then Date Her Older Sis At The Same Time. Sometimes Taking Both Out On The Same Date. Hell I May Be Getting A Bit Older, But I Do Still Know When To Use The " RIGHT TIP TO GET THE RIGHT TRICK ". CAN YA GIVE A AMEN TA THAT ONE I may even send Ya pic. of that HOTTIE, If You Can Behave.....Oh Hell Take A Look At My Good " FRIEND " MARY
Scott Ona Gwe, Waki Wm Scott Whitmore aka Em~Hotep
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Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
Starlite Member Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Saturday, October 01, 2005 - 11:48 pm: |
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ok wrong thread scott this stuff is about girls and nailing one... lol but hell if jesus comes into mind... lol the truth behind my pains, rants.. and everything that I want to be, and not to be? well thats my truth, as an individual. :-) an elite army of one I'm shackled to this alter sacrificed to their God
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Scott Whitmore (Emhotep)
Starlite Member Username: Emhotep
| | Posted on Friday, September 30, 2005 - 11:26 pm: |
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Are We better off being hated for who We are, than to be loved for who we are not Elliott. Is that Your Message to the World, I am Sorry if it has become such a place within Your Heart & Mind. I am alsoVERY SORRY THAT I'VE OFFENDED YOU IN ANY WAY / SHAPE AND OR FORM WHAT SO EVER THAT I HAVE , but as to Your comment about childern You are WRONG I love all childern. Espcialy any whom I see have been hurt by this world's evil and those who seek to help I have & will always be here for. I once more seek only the TRUTH IN YOUR PAIN, NOT ABOUT HOW GOD IS AT FAULT.... " ET SORTEUM DE FALSTO PURNIEM ET SPIRITO "
Scott
} Ona Gwe, Waki Wm Scott Whitmore aka Em~Hotep
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Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
Starlite Member Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Friday, September 30, 2005 - 04:44 pm: |
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lol :-) scott i cant live with out you man :-)uhm and i dont blame everyone for whats wrong... i just blame the church, the government, society.. and thats about it.... now if thats everyone then hell with them? and no the world is not against everything that i am because i am my own world.. so how can i be against myself? Hmm makes me/you think... there is this nice quote that sais... "i am a world before i am a man i was a creature before i could stand i will remember before i can forget" well chat later scott, and learn to like children for we all have one stuck inside our bones. I'm shackled to this alter sacrificed to their God
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Scott Whitmore (Emhotep)
Starlite Member Username: Emhotep
| | Posted on Tuesday, September 27, 2005 - 12:37 am: |
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Oh Good God Elliott Are You Still On That Kick Of The Whole World Is Against Everything You Are, And As Far As Your " OVER DRAMATIC ACTING " goes enough already.... TRY GROWING UP & ACTING YOUR AGE NOT YOUR SHOE SIZE ! We All Have Our Own Trails & Problems To Deal With In This Life, But We All Don't Come In Here Taking It Out On Everyone Else Just To Blame Someone For What Is Wrong. There is My Tip & Trick For You Today.... YOUR WELCOME NUFF SAID
 Ona Gwe, Waki Wm Scott Whitmore aka Em~Hotep
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Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
Starlite Member Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Monday, September 26, 2005 - 09:07 pm: |
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uhm scott real nice.. me blabboing about heart help when i cant even communicate well.. i love that lol well two negative make a possitive... lol I'm shackled to this alter sacrificed to their God
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Jessica Staunches (Jessica4414)
Starlite Member Username: Jessica4414
| | Posted on Wednesday, September 07, 2005 - 07:55 pm: |
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Hi I don't mean to interupt but do you guys think maybe you could help me I'm a struggling poet trying to get my poems published with out shelling out alot of money } |
   
Scott Whitmore (Emhotep)
Starlite Member Username: Emhotep
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 31, 2005 - 11:47 pm: |
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Hey...David you don't need to get down the the dumps, or have to let Elliott rag on ya about this subject of the heart ( YOUR HEART ). If this Young Woman is that " SPECIAL " to you, as seems the case here. Let Her Know This & Also Let Her Know That These Are " YOUR OWN FEELINGS & ARE NOT ANY PLOY OR JOKE ". Elliott was right about a few things, like going out with her to a real nice place, but find out what things she " TRULY LIKES TO DO & GO ". Then make a date and do things both of you might enjoy together, not just pick the one person's idea. After all it's what You David have within the " SOUL OF YOUR OWN HEART THAT IS SPECIAL & RIGHT IN THIS MATTER ". You are the one that needs to take the bull by the ol horns here, try to send here flowers either where she works if she does or in class with a card that say to Her " Your an Angel Upon Earth: from ( I'll call at 8:00 tonight ) ". Just get out there and do what You Feel Is The One Right Thing For YOU....
PS. DAVID YOU MAY ALSO WANT TO ADD A SECRET PHRASE IN WITH THAT SO SHE KNOWS FOR SURE IT IS YOU.. JUST ONE IDEAL TO THINK OF...?
Scott Whitmore zanthor2691@aol.com} Ona Gwe, Waki Wm Scott Whitmore aka Em~Hotep
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Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
Starlite Member Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 30, 2005 - 07:08 pm: |
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aww hell well i asked her out on a date and the... predicatable happened.. she looked at me twise and left... hell broke loose on me again... chicks are EVIL!!!!!!!!!! EVIL CHIECKS!!!!!!!!! WICKED EVIL CHICKS, so far, talking sweet, makes em think you're gay, being kind of bossy, makes em think you're a stuck up ".............", and being yourself at times makes em run away... anyone got tips!!!! I'm shackled to this alter sacrificed to their God
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David Whelan Harty (David_harty)
Starlite Member Username: David_harty
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 03, 2005 - 08:03 pm: |
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I got serious probs...lol |
   
Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
Starlite Member Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 03, 2005 - 07:53 pm: |
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no prob dude just chill and she might come to ya' I'm shackled to this alter sacrificed to their God
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David Whelan Harty (David_harty)
Starlite Member Username: David_harty
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 03, 2005 - 07:47 pm: |
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Writing in a notebook, tho she might get pissed or somthin', but you know g whatever. I'll try almost anything once, for a girl, that I'm fellin' thanks homies. |
   
Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
Starlite Member Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 02, 2005 - 05:10 pm: |
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Yeah Jim said the basic rules behave...etc.. now to the objective part of getting over the fear... I talked to my ex and it was "awkwardo" pluss I still love her... blah love hurts damn it... Well man I mustered up the courage and started talking to her about recent events happening (going back to school etc...) then the conversation drifts and you can sort of manipulate it which is nice :-D and like Jim said thats a very very very very good way to getting attention and not looking like much of a dumb... you get the drift... lol I'm shackled to this alter sacrificed to their God
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Jim Armstrong (Njaeok)
Starlite Member Username: Njaeok
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 02, 2005 - 04:22 pm: |
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David-- The very fact that you are responding to girls like this demonstrates that you are not a puss. You may appear wussy if you don't take control of your part of the encounter. That's just social technique. The first thing is to make a decision. Pretend that you are a spy that must report on her personality. Then observe her from that point of view. Just because she is curvy and exudes pheromones dosen't indicate that she is someone with whome you can be close. This only takes a moment or two once you have your intellect in control with your harmonial reactions regulated to the background. Just decide if her attitudes and mannerisms are similiar to the sort of persons you enjoy hanging out with. If you decide yeah, she seems to be cool, then you devise some way to get her attention with you in charge of your own responses. Most teen girls are pretty self conscious. Walk up to her, stop just outside her intimate zone where she has to respond to you but inside her awarness zone where she knows you are there. Start looking her over while taking notes in a small note book. Write things like "lovely personility" "very intelligent" "quite mature" "self assured". Write positive things that you really feel about her. When she demands to know what you are doing just be honest. Tell her that you were attracted to her beauty but needed to decide about her character before approaching her for friendship. Invite her to have a coke or coffee or whatever with you so you can get to know her better. She will be burning with curosity to know what you wrote in the note book and will most likely have a coke with you just to get a chance ro read it. You get the idea? Stay in control of your own responses. Behave decently and be honest about your feelings without ever allowing yourself to get blubbery. Girls hate blubbery from any source except infants.
Jimbo
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David Whelan Harty (David_harty)
Starlite Member Username: David_harty
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 02, 2005 - 12:31 pm: |
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How do you jus step to a girl? I mean last night, there was this girl I was really into, but I was to much of a puss, just to strp up...I need advice, for that..And how do you call up a girl you ain't talked to in a long time... |
   
David Whelan Harty (David_harty)
Starlite Member Username: David_harty
| | Posted on Tuesday, August 02, 2005 - 12:23 pm: |
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How do you jus step to a girl? I mean last night, there was this girl I was really into, but I was to much of a puss, just to strp up...I need advice, for that..And how do you call up a girl you ain't talked to in a long time... |
   
Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
Starlite Member Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Monday, August 01, 2005 - 07:26 pm: |
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help you with what? I'm shackled to this alter sacrificed to their God
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David Whelan Harty (David_harty)
Starlite Member Username: David_harty
| | Posted on Monday, August 01, 2005 - 03:21 pm: |
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Yea.....NOW HELP ME DAMN IT! |
   
Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
Starlite Member Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Monday, August 01, 2005 - 12:33 pm: |
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I got a little plan! Hmm... restaurant, walk on the bay... tell her that the stars are beautiful like her... and then see what happens maybe she might get my message... if she does not... I will pity her... sounds good eh? I'm shackled to this alter sacrificed to their God
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David Whelan Harty (David_harty)
Starlite Member Username: David_harty
| | Posted on Monday, August 01, 2005 - 09:46 am: |
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So wtf lol
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Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
Starlite Member Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Monday, August 01, 2005 - 12:02 am: |
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Yep that friend first stuff never works.. cause' then someone will walk up and take your hopes away... complicated I'm shackled to this alter sacrificed to their God
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David Whelan Harty (David_harty)
Starlite Member Username: David_harty
| | Posted on Saturday, July 30, 2005 - 08:14 pm: |
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Nope, that's f**ked me in past instances, like I become freinds, then she says, we are to good of freinds to date, I just don't get this s**t |