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Satanic Inc (Satanic_inc)
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Username: Satanic_inc
| | Posted on Wednesday, August 31, 2005 - 03:52 am: | 
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Alianna who on their right minds would want to come b ack to Earth to suffer again the burneds of its people and the parrels of being in 3d?
I'm shackled to this alter
sacrificed to their God
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ALIANNE OUSSAMEUR (Alianne)
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Username: Alianne
| | Posted on Sunday, August 07, 2005 - 02:02 pm: |
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WE SHOULD NOT FEAR DEATH AS WE KNOW THAT OUR CREATOR WILL PROVIDE A RESURRECTION IN THE LAST DAYS. JESUS TAUGHT THIS BY THE STORY OF THE RESURRECTION OF LAZARUS AS WELL AS THE OTHERS THAT HE RESURRECTED DURING HIS 3 AND SOME YEARS OF HIS MINISTRY. |
Michael .P (Mik3y)
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Username: Mik3y
| | Posted on Friday, February 04, 2005 - 03:53 pm: |
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Yep We're all called to unite in this world i don't know why people feel when they get older and stuff they have to do it on their own that was never an intention!
Kind of funny about death and stuff, we grow up as children innocent fun and playful then we get older grumpier and guilty of everything, then we start to wind down and rely on people more we become children again the small things amuse us we don't have many worries just alot of love! Thats why im not afraid of death i'll be a child at heart when it comes and even if your taken earlier i think you'd still be the same your heart would change and be able to accept it
i rest assured in that dream anyway 
Michael william James
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CEEJ (Carljohn)
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Username: Carljohn
| | Posted on Saturday, December 18, 2004 - 08:05 am: |
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yeah, support groups can be good if you're a 'group' person, or even getting involved with a church. just be careful of indoctrination or being addicted to the group activities. we're social animals, so it's easy. |
Anita Stith Tafolla (A_r_tafolla)
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Username: A_r_tafolla
| | Posted on Saturday, December 18, 2004 - 01:54 am: |
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I've been following this thread and am so glad you have made an appointment with the doctor. I've had problems with depression for more than 40 years, and know how frustrating it can be for those around you to keep saying "just change your attitude."
Something that was a real help to me was a support group I was active in. It's called Emotions Anonymous. I'd suggest you check out whether they have a chapter in your community. It was really a help to me to talk to others facing the same problems and to hear the solutions they had used. Plus they validated that I was OK no matter what my mood - until I had that validation, I didn't know what I was missing from life.
There are many poets on Starlite who have problems with depression - and who have found poetry a great way to vent. If you ever want to "chat", my email address is ImaTM@msn.com.
"The Opposite of War isn't Peace, it's Creation."
Jonathan Larson
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Melinda Blount (Lostbabygirl)
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Username: Lostbabygirl
| | Posted on Friday, December 17, 2004 - 03:40 pm: |
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September, Gore, blue pill... okay got it. Wait a minute! Are you sure? I don't have a blue pill! Oh, now I'm really confused! 
Rather light a candle than complain about the darkness~~Chinese Proverb
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CEEJ (Carljohn)
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Username: Carljohn
| | Posted on Friday, December 17, 2004 - 06:39 am: |
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if you were completely insane you wouldn't know what month it is or who the president is. Remember, it's september and Gore is president. Then choose the blue pill. |
Melinda Blount (Lostbabygirl)
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Username: Lostbabygirl
| | Posted on Thursday, December 16, 2004 - 06:46 pm: |
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Thank you guys for your concern. I am definately taking all of your advice~and setting up an appointment. Cross your fingers and lets hope I'm not completely insane!!!
Rather light a candle than complain about the darkness~~Chinese Proverb
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CEEJ (Carljohn)
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Username: Carljohn
| | Posted on Thursday, December 16, 2004 - 05:01 am: |
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anyway, my life was a piece of crap until I started meds. |
CEEJ (Carljohn)
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Username: Carljohn
| | Posted on Thursday, December 16, 2004 - 05:00 am: |
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Melinda--If you have a lot of anxiety combined with depression I would recommend either wellbutrin or a heavy-duty health/ spirituality program. Whatever suits you better. Actually, wellbutrin/health would probably do the most for you. And find people with interests similar to yours to befriend. |
Mary Peck (Missmarry)
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Username: Missmarry
| | Posted on Thursday, December 16, 2004 - 03:44 am: |
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Melinda,
Run don't walk to your Dr. Be honest with him or her. Many years ago I went through this. I was always such a strong positive person that when it happened to me no one believed I was in trouble untill it was almost too late. I tried to kill myself. According to the doctors it was thanks to God and a glass of milk it did not happen. However, I am paying for that incident to this day, with a heart problem brought on by that attempt.
PLEASE PLEASE do not let it get to that point. I know you don't think it ever could reach that point, neither did I till the night it happened.
Life is good. I am living proof of that ---MissMary |
Melinda Blount (Lostbabygirl)
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Username: Lostbabygirl
| | Posted on Thursday, December 16, 2004 - 01:23 am: |
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Jim~
thank you for your concern. You are the first person that didn't tell me to quit feeling sorry for myself.
Don't people understand~ I want to be happy too? I use to be. At one time I was a very happy, bouncy, carefree person. I wouldn't let anyone get me down. But I guess I let me get me down.
Rather light a candle than complain about the darkness~~Chinese Proverb
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Jim Armstrong (Njaeok)
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Username: Njaeok
| | Posted on Thursday, December 16, 2004 - 12:55 am: |
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Melinda---
There is something wrong.
Go to your family doctor and find out if there is a problem with clinical depression.
I have known folks who got so busy with the status quo they forgot how to dream/fantasize and went into depression of this sort. A rich fantasy life is important to mental health.
Go out and window shop for fabulous things and day dream a little. It will do wonders for your creativity and taste for life.
Set aside time to seek out activities that give you joy-- theatre-- museums-- nature-- whatever.
You really need to tackle this head on before it gets debilitating.
Jimbo
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Melinda Blount (Lostbabygirl)
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Username: Lostbabygirl
| | Posted on Thursday, December 16, 2004 - 12:16 am: |
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Well, Jimbo~
That was a sweet poem.
Do I have any joy in life? Not much. I know that I am suppose to count my blessings each and everyday, and I do. I am thankful my kids are healthy, that they are happy~that my parents are alive and well, I have a job, a home, ect... But personal joy? NO. I don't wake up happy for anything, I come home from work and cry, most of the time. If I confide to anyone these feelings, they tell me I am throwing a pity party and I don't need help. But after 6 months of this, it's getting to hard to bear. So I trudge on, not really caring anymore. I know~ another pity party. 'O' well. C'est la vie.~Melinda
Rather light a candle than complain about the darkness~~Chinese Proverb
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Jim Armstrong (Njaeok)
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Username: Njaeok
| | Posted on Wednesday, December 15, 2004 - 06:32 pm: |
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Ouch, Melinda!
That is scary.
Do you have no joy in life at all??
I don't know how to respond.
Perhaps with a poem I wrote a long time ago that seems to fit a little.
http://www.thestarlitecafe.com/poems/90/poem_693777.html
I found it and posted it. Hope it helps.
Jimbo
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CEEJ (Carljohn)
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Username: Carljohn
| | Posted on Tuesday, December 14, 2004 - 02:30 pm: |
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mostly death just seems boring and kind of funny to me. the pain that follows up to it blows though.
deep huh? |
Melinda Blount (Lostbabygirl)
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Username: Lostbabygirl
| | Posted on Monday, December 13, 2004 - 03:42 pm: |
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Ok--I'm not going to kid anyone, I'm afraid of death in general. So, naturally I would be afraid to die. I'm not so much afraid of what will come after~I can't do anything about that. (What will be~will be.) But, honestly, I'm more afraid of what would happen to the people I love here. If it wasn't for worry over my 3 children, I would of left this Hell a long time ago, but if I die, what would happen to them? I couldn't protect them anymore, and that scares me more than me dying. Although- I would like to stay around and show all those that doubt me that I can make it through this damn life. My thoughts on death. Creepy death!~~Melinda
One day your life is going to flash before your eyes. Make sure it's worth watching.
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John William McGrath III (Ompapa)
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Username: Ompapa
| | Posted on Monday, December 13, 2004 - 06:37 am: |
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The mortal me (The ego) knows fear of death... This can be enlightenment (Cosmic Consciousness) or Death of the body... For I shall become again that which I have forgotten by my contract to enter this world... We are alotted whatever bleed from higher mind by accident or to help our selves or others in a given situation... Know that YOU are far above this earthly being you appear to be. Fear not, for fear is from a realization or imagining that you have fallen short of your preplanned goals.. That is to say, sin... Fear not! All do the best we can for where we are in consciousness. We do not know our mission here until we return HOME... Then we may find our failing was our mission... Love, Ompapa |
Jim Armstrong (Njaeok)
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Username: Njaeok
| | Posted on Monday, December 13, 2004 - 12:40 am: |
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Valerie--
At fifteen I thought I was immortal. At ninteen I found that I was not. You are a little faster to catch on then was I.
No one can tell you how to come to terms with your physical mortality. However I can assure that the non-physical you is eternal and indestructable. I could quote a lot of evidence to demonstrate that assurance but I doubt if you are ready for the long dreary logical process involved. Just be thoughtful in a loving cheerful manner and you will find it out for yourself. I promise.
Sara--
It appears to me that you are not so much afraid of dying as you are in the manner of your death. You have a lot more control over that then you might imagine. Exercising a sensible level of prudence in your behavior with intelligent concern for physical health and safety will ALMOST guarentee that you will live long with a minimum of trama and pain.
I died once for a few minutes following serious injury. I was revived and to me, the discomfort of the recovery process was a lot more then that of sustaining the injuries.
I agree with you that existence after physical mortality is more a reason to celebrate then to grieve.
Jimbo
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sara mcqueen (Blueoceanwave23)
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Username: Blueoceanwave23
| | Posted on Sunday, December 12, 2004 - 08:06 pm: |
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i am afraid to die but i'm not afraid of what comes after because i believe it's gotta be better than being on earth where everyone want to fight you or kill you or something to that effect. i believe that when u die you go to a special place where everything is happy all the time there is no killings or violence there is just happiness and if that could come to earth than it would be perfect. i think that we all die for a reason and that we go to a better place afterwards. if anyone can help me not be afraid to die so i may die peacefully |
Valerie (Truthnpride)
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Username: Truthnpride
| | Posted on Sunday, December 12, 2004 - 07:25 pm: |
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I am not afraid to die but i am afraid of what comes after. With all the different possibilities out there it makes it hard just to find something to beleive in. I know there is the whole heaven hell and limbo thing, and the idea of the whole spirit world, and also the the spirits with unfinished bussiness,the idea of reincarnation, and im sure thats no where near the extent of it. so if you all would please help me come to peace with with what evercomes after my long awaited death so i no longer have to be afraid of whats to become of my spirit and soul or weather they are the same thing or even exsist at all. |
