THE PAIN OF LOVE
I am sure through life experiences
we have had been exposed to a pain
associated with love, relationship
or even pain of rejection.
How many times
we have experienced
the pain of self-doubt
or pain of fear - however,
when we have the knowledge
it is easier distinguish the importance
of those feelings.
When I think of pain
associated with love
there are additional aspects
love carries as well as
the love baggage.
Some people think
of as negative emotions,
this is when we need our
Friends, family, and its strength
to support our insecurity.
Love feels incredible
it is not painful
the pain and hurt we feel
does not come from love.
Those are the fears, anxiety,
perceived rejections,
broken trusts, anger and jealousy.
We tend to lump those other feelings
with love perhaps it is because
we feel these uncomfortable emotions
most often in association with
our love relationships.
Love feels warm, open, and joyous
filled with a deep sense
of appreciation.
Nevertheless, pain steps
into a love between two people
when they switch from
a wanted relationship
to a needed relationship.
Balance would be the answer.
There is no room for doubts.
Insecurity will affects those two.
Like a Desert with its shifting sands
creating unstable ground,
because life has a lot of room
that cultivates love instead of doubt.
To accomplish our needs
removing love baggage of fear
unhappiness, thus improving awareness
of self-acceptance.
April 25 - 2007
By Zuzanna
© 2008 Zuzanna
(All rights reserved)
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