LOVE is a many splendid thing it makes the world go around it is all we need it conquers all what the world needs now, is love sweet love.
These idealized words. These social imagery laden words about love, which according to some I’ve read is the primal moving force of nature, along with so many other scenes from old movies and love songs and poems and romance novels and romantic movements and shiny dream walking cloud nine floating little Cupid Naked winged baby bow and arrow shooting internal mytho-cultural archtypical precognitive preconceptions regarding that one single life motivating word LOVE.
It sets us up man. It gives us ideas man. Makes us idealize something that is much more a state of the natural waking walking world than the Platonian post cave dream like light filled world of ideals its real, not so ideal, you see.
LOVE is NOT all about rainbows and sunsets and European food and music and dancing and tingling feelings and staring into the eyes for several long longing moments just before the rhythmic Hollywood sex scene that continues on for a very long time.
Yes, LOVE contains these things and there is beauty in romance beauty in idealization, but love real love day to day moment to moment transcending environmental momentary conditional factors LOVE. LOVE. LOVE is disagreeing. LOVE is walking through adversity. LOVE is the screaming baby in the back seat of an old car while driving for groceries. LOVE is sleepless nights and jobs. And marital counseling and kid raising and bill paying and struggling and the dreams of two people meshing and colliding and growing and becoming and unfolding. It’s about being who you are and loving someone for who they are. AND yea man, there is still that poem inspiring looking in the eyes, but it’s the eyes of a person not an idea the eyes of the person that you love.
By sextonpoet
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